Oral sex has been an integral part of intercourse for a long time. It is considered one of the most commonly practiced forms of foreplay. It was anciently practiced to preserve virginity but still achieve bodily pleasures.
Oral sex, in its origin, branches into two sects: fellatio(the act of pleasing the male counterpart of a mating couple by caressing and stimulating the penis using mouth, throat, or hands) and cunnilingus(the act of pleasing the female counterpart of a mating couple by stimulating and teasing the vulva/vagina of the female, especially the clitoris using lips, tongue, and hands). Herein this article, we’ll be talking about the act of blowjob, or fellatio, and how one can be adept at it and give the perfect blowjob to their sexual partner(s).
Blowjob as Foreplay
A blowjob can be an excellent activity to initiate intercourse, that is, as foreplay. Blowjobs are one of the most practiced forms of foreplay because of their simple nature and the rapidity with which they can stimulate one’s libido. Even putting one’s hand gently over the crotch and caressing the penis and the testicles is an immense turn-on if done correctly.
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Blowjob is also practiced because of its simplicity as it does not need any protection or anything as the practice is oral and has no risk of accidental pregnancies or other alarming things. If anything, it is one of the best activities for inducing a maddening sex drive.
How to give the Perfect Blowjob
Although sex is a matter of emotions and the body acting on those emotions,there can always be some helpful tips which can help one to be more intimate with their partners. Converging in on the main point, let us have a look at some of the best tips which can help one to give the perfect blowjob to their partner:
- Building Up to the act
Even though blowjobs are an essential part of the inducing part of sex, that is, foreplay, blowjobs themselves have the requirement of a kind of build-up because one cannot just whip their penis out and then let the other person do the work; that would be an extreme turnoff for so many.
To build up the libido, one can send sexy selfies when the man is at work or the gym to get the vibe that something is arousing waiting for him at home. If one is uncomfortable with someone having records of the pictures, one can use Snapchat for these purposes.
One can also go for the guy’s turn-ons, that is, by fiddling with his libido and increasing it gradually with mentions of some moments of their very hot sex together, whispering some trigger word, seductively looking at him, and other compelling stuff.
- Positions
Believe it or not, just like in penetration sex, positions matter during blowjobs too! Let us have a look at some of the positions:
2. Submissive positions
If the male counterpart likes to be the dominant of the two participants of the intercourse, then make him feel so. Kneel in front of him before the blowjob and ask him if he’s feeling good enough to let you do it. Look up to him while gently licking his penis at first, and then gradually give in to the pleasure.
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- Dominant positions
If dominating your sexual partner is your forte, the sixty-nine position should be your go-to move. Slowly lower your vagina on his face for him to perform cunnilingus and then lean forward and gently caress his penis with your hands and then put the tip of it in your mouth, and then try taking it in as much as you can, in convulsions.
- Exotic positions
To spice it up, one can always go for innovative new positions, which would involve a lot of flexible muscles and agility in the participants. Trying something new is always welcome and never goes out of fashion.
- Teasing Him
A very effective way of inducing libido, and giving the perfect blowjob, is by playing around with his manhood first, teasing him a bit before getting up on the main act.
The teasing can be achieved in many ways, like kissing around the nether and crotch areas, softly caressing the testicles with the tips of one’s fingers, scratching his ass cheeks gently and seducingly, and massaging the testicles and its neighboring areas with the tongue.
Leaving a trail of kisses throughout his body is also a good practice to set up the stage for the best blowjob. One should slowly make their way from his lips to his penis. That way, his other sensuous spots also get attention.
- Keeping in mind the Don’ts
One should always remember the strict don’ts during the art of fellatio, or blowjob. First of all, the use of teeth: almost everyone in guys despises the use of teeth during blowjobs, because of obvious reasons of soft flesh coming in contact with sharp teeth.
However, some guys might like the subtle and short-lived feel of teeth on their penis. One should also not be too stuck to a routine and try to introduce variation in their sexual lives since change and innovation are always accepted and welcomed in a sensual environment. Also, blowjobs should not be given just because the other person has to return the favor to you. Sex should never be treated as a transaction because it is one of the purest things to exist.
These were just some tips that would help someone give the best blowjob to their sexual partner. After all, experiencing sexual pleasure is the closest thing to absolute satisfaction one can achieve in mortal life, and blowjob or fellatio is one of the most intimate things one can perform with their romantic/sexual partner.
Even though penetration is the apex considered by many, oral sex is, if not equally, almost equally pleasure-giving as penetration and is even more intimate. However, it does not have as much mouth-to-mouth action as intercourse.